"Come in," God said to me, "so, you would like to interview Me?"
"If you have the time," I said.
He smiled through His beard and said: "My time is called eternity and is
enough to do everything; what questions do you have in mind to ask me?"
"None that are new to you. What surprises you most
about mankind?"
He answered: "That they get bored with being children, are in a rush to grow
up, and then long to be children again. That they lose their health to make
money and then lose their money to restore their health. That by thinking
anxiously about the future, they forget the present, such that they live
neither for the present nor the future. That they live as if they will
never die, and they die as if they had never lived."
His hands took mine and we were silent. After a long
period, I said, "May I ask you another question?"
He replied with a smile.
"As a Father, what would you ask your children to do
for the coming years?"
"To learn that they cannot make anyone love them. What they can do is to let
themselves be loved. To learn that it takes years to build trust, and a few
seconds to destroy it."
"To learn that what is most valuable is not what they have in their lives,
but whom they have in their lives."
"To learn that it is not good to compare themselves to others. There will be
others better or worse than they are."
"To learn that a rich person is not one who has the most, but is one who
needs the least."
"To learn that they should control their attitudes, otherwise their attitudes
will control them."
"To learn to forgive by practicing forgiveness. To learn that there are
persons that love them dearly, but simply do not know how to show their
feelings."
"To learn that money can buy everything but happiness."
"To learn that while at times they may be entitled to be upset, that does not
give them the right to upset those around them."
"To learn that great dreams do not require great wings, but a landing gear to
achieve."
"To learn that true friends are scarce, he/she who has found one has found a
true treasure."
"To learn that it is not always enough that they be forgiven by others, but
that they forgive themselves."
"To learn that they are masters of what they keep to themselves and slaves of
what they say."
"To learn that they shall reap what they plant, if they plant gossip they
will harvest intrigues, if they plant love they will harvest happiness."
"To learn that true happiness is not to achieve their goals but to learn to
be satisfied with what they already achieved."
"To learn that happiness is a decision. They decide to be happy with what
they are and have, or die from envy and jealousy of what they lack."
"To learn that two people can look at the same thing and see something
totally different."
"To learn that those who are honest with themselves without considering the
consequences go far in life."
"To learn that even though they may think they have nothing to give, when a
friend cries with them, they find the strength to ease the pain."
"To learn that by trying to hold on to loved ones, they very quickly push
them away; and by letting go of those whom they love, they will be side by
side forever."
"To learn that even though the word "love" has many different meanings, it
loses value when it is overstated."
"Never look down on anybody unless you're helping them up."
"To learn that they can never do something extraordinary for Me to love them;
I simply do."
"To learn that the shortest distance they could be from Me is the distance of
a prayer."
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